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Subbed! Cld I ask where you got your dining bench from? We've been looking for this design where it indents towards the middle. Thanks!

this vlog makes me cry

Love this new style! Both of you are relationship veterans so I always felt that you guys have a lot to share even if I'm not that much younger than you guys. Have a balance of both styles of video! I think the risk of having all your content being like this is that you'll run out of things to reflect on, or you'll come off as toxic introspective (if that makes sense), and of course this probably takes much more planning than something that is more casual on the couch.

Isn't this the couple that almost broke up because she thinks her partner not good enough then end up realize she is the one that has nothing to provide and is mentally unstable that's why stick together. The laughs from her all like fake one sia

Bro is a yapper holy shit. One yapper the other emotionally unstable one keep saying on divorce. This one confirm the girl end up cheating one

Been watching most of your videos but subscribed (finally) because of this video! Haha love the reflection, doesn’t have to resonate w everyone but it resonated w me. I used to be calculative too but I feel like my husband grounds me. (He is Malay, coincidentally like your story that you shared which I also somewhat agree that they are able to laugh at themselves) More of such content pls!

i love it！！！！！！！

I love this style so much! When i first started watching john on othrt channels was becos i tot he was funny but i am so glad to see the the side of him that is so nurturing,thoughtful and wise and this whole video i kept asking myself who do i want to be like and i realise i would want to adopt traits of anf John and Pat thank you for being the internet parents ❤❤

great episode, very insightful!!

really really like this style! reflective vibes

i thought i’ll never like the content of this video. but john and pat, it’s amazing..

Wah I don't know where to start. I dig this whole reflective type video and appreciate that you summarized this whole theory into "egg shell theory". Makes it easier to understand and remember

This was such a nice video/vlog •ᴗ• really just felt like I was sitting down with my older sis/bro for a nice chat

Been loving all the other episodes but this particular one feels a little naggy. Feels like I was attending a cell group 😮‍💨

I don't like the way the man talks. Like a Ah Beng Ah Seng. Won't be a good husband

Love the content of this video! Its refreshing and also make us think deeper

This is so Singaporean. Reflections also must use powerpoint :)

Great insights, thanks for sharing!

You guys are literally my second "parents" who teach me the treasure of relationships ❤❤❤ Even though I am in a happy relationship, I will always try to treasure my partner just like how you guys treasure each other ❤

loving this new format! ❤

Hey guys, this video came at the right time for me. Thank you for sharing your egg shell theory! I’m changing a new career path now and I am so looking forward to it. Thank you & I’ll be the rock hahah!!! Love ya ❤

Hi damaiana juniors! Not sure if patrina still rmbs me.. oh how much i miss damai sec sch

Love the insights that you have given, its really the little things in life that matter!

So cheem. Hahaha. But good video.

Make more videos like this!! It's good!

can john also do a series solely on business? would love to hear your many many raw and unfiltered thoughts on building a local creative business

loving the new format and hearing your many thoughts, sounds like smth i will talk to my partner/close friends about :-)

Great sharing, love you two!!

Super love this episode. Very inspiring lah u guys..thank u for being vulnerable to share with ur viewers❤

love this content! made me decide to subscribe

I like it.

Oh. I don't know why the RUclips algorithm led me to this video, but at first glance I thought it would be about a long married couple reminiscing about where they first met, etc. Instead it was about that Daily Ketchup bloke who has been married for only about 6 years. Chey. Wait till you are married for at least 30 or 40 years. This is early days my friend. God forbid but anything can happen. When so many 'celebrity' couples get divorced, I am just jaded in regard to these sort of stories. My generation is making a mockery of marriage if you ask me.

I absolutely love this reflective type of videos as it shows your thought processes. Most importantly the lessons shared in this video are valuable. Looking forward to more of such videos. Thanks for remembering the purpose of this channel.

Loved this!! Thank you for taking the time to form your thoughts on this and share this. This new format is great too!

I think this might be my fav vlog from you guys! It’s really well articulated leh, especially on being the amalgamation of other people’s traits & money talk :)

Thank you for sharing your reflective moments, good to remember what TRULY matters in our lives, live purposefully.

go for it!! love these kind of reflection vids❤

Thanks both for really sharing your insights, as a young working adult myself i could really relate to everything said. 🥹 Besides, the ‘egg shell’ theory is pretty similar to a book i recently read - Atomic Habits. Do give it a read and i’m sure you’ll be able to relate to the whole concept of filling the shoes of who you wish to be! :)

This actually is super useful. Thanks man. I gonna start implementing your theory! <3

Very candid reflections! Do more of such sharings :-) BE in the moment! Thank you ^-^

It’s hard to to forget these memories. School days were the best days. How buddies and besties were formed. Times when have to have tea with the Principal… detentions, supportive teachers and friends… if can turn back time, would love to relive it again and make a better me.

wa.. loving the new format.

I love my gf charlotte

To be honest, a bit lecturer-ry and boring.. 😅 but still interesting.. maybe too much talking🤪 Waiting for your next video! 👍🏻

Thanks Jon & Pat, I've also had issues spending money, be it being territorial with money and all. Hearing what you said about "Saving that 1/2 dollars won't make you rich" truly puts it into perspective. Please do more of these! <3

If a person wayang everyday for the rest of his life. Is he really wayang?

Excellent video and a wonderful new format! I didn't click on anything else for the whole 16mins. Please stick to this!

Loved the format, and use of the old photos and fonts adding to the nostalgic tone. For a p5-p6 student, John already so introspective, and the ability to recall is impressive. Haha the open door for girls part brings back flashbacks, just a seemingly minor act of decency could result in you gettin ka chao by others. Then you start second-guessing and becoming hyper-aware of what might come across as something that might attract unwanted attention, when you were just simply being decent to begin with. The "being part of the boys" part also important, how you navigate between how you are are with the boys and how you are with the women in your life, whilst trying to walk the line and keep hypocrisy to a minimum is a road that I think most guys will undertake in their lifetime. Esp. when you're young and want that acceptance (often time because of the consequences of not being accepted) ,but feel like sometimes you have to cross lines to obtain it. Then when it comes time for you to put your best foot forward, those compromises can come back to haunt you. Although I do think to a certain degree, those with religious upbringing tend to have more of a disposition to care about the perceived lack of hypocrisy be it from others and more importantly yourself. Lol I'm a bit like Pat 比较计较 about money, but over the years, have learnt to be less calculative. Nice to see the variety in format, always enjoy seeing whatever you guys upload.

For a moment I thought, "what DHL theory?"